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Dear Diva - Does He Know? |
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Dear Diva, Does he know? I have this problem. I’m going out with this guy and I have waiting so long for him to like me and last week he finally asked me out… and he also asked me to prom. I think about him all day every second of the day. But I don’t think he likes me, like I like him. How do I know if he likes me still or that he really does care about me? Because when I’m around him at school it doesn’t seem like he does. How do I know if I should stay with him? How do I know if he still likes me, or if he thinks about me? PLEASE HELP ME DIVA! - From a very confused chick
Dear Very Confused Chick; What is there to be confused about? Are you his prom date or his date to the prom? You may be getting confused because you don’t want to listen to your gut or what your body language is telling you. So let me help you break it down, then you choose what you need to do - for you and only you! Is he the prince charming you have been waiting for? Does he treat you like a queen - do you feel like a queen? It sounds like you are spending too much time in la-la land wondering if he still likes, cares or even thinks about you. Get your head out of his world and start taking care of business in your own world. Stop thinking for him and start feeling and listening to your gut! “He acts different around you when he is in public, around his friends or in school" - actions do speak louder then words but more importantly your reactions and emotions are telling you something, so listen! Confusion takes over when you are afraid to ask the questions and not wanting to hear the answers. WHY because you already know the answer! You are a queen and you should be treated and respected as one BUT this will only happen if your treat and respect yourself as one first. So you see my universal queen, I am proud of you, because all the answers to the hard questions... you already know. Just be true to yourself first and don’t go looking for prince charming…enjoy who you are while keeping your eyes open and you will eventually see him, when the time is right. Now for the prom… whether you choose to be his prom date... simple his date to the prom... or neither, remember this…that is your day. You worked hard for it, be proud of what you achieved and you will attract people who are also proud of you for you… ...so enjoy every minute of it. |